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Tuesday 19 August 2014

Kevin Hart gets engaged + His ex-wife claims black men go for light skinned girls once they become successful

Kevin Hart has proposed to his long term girlfriend, Eniko Parrish. He proposed to her yesterday as she turned 30. Kevin posted the pic on the right on his instagram page and wrote;
"Happy Birthday to the most amazing woman in the world. Today is your day babe & we are going to party like it's 1999....I love you so much. I'm a better man because of you. P.S your old as shit now lmao #Dirty30
Then he posted the one on the left and wrote "She said Yessss!.. #Happy #MyRib #iFuckingLoveHer
Congrats to them but one person who won't be very happy about this news is his ex-wife and mother of his two children, Torrei Hart, who's claimed in the past that Kevin cheated on her with Eniko many years ago, slamming Eniko for being a home wrecker. In a recent interview, Torriei talked about black men going for lights skinned girls once they reach a level of success. See that after the cut...

Speaking with Cherise Nicole on black men dating outside their race once they are successful, Torrei said
“Honestly, it wasn’t all Kevin’s fault. I won’t say it was all his fault. Cause I look back now and I take ownership of some of the things I could’ve did differently. But, I did question my beauty. I did question like, wow, why is it that all black men, when they reach a certain level, they have to feel like they need someone of another race, or a different skin tone on their arm? And I’m just like, well why aren’t we looked at as beautiful? We’re beautiful black queens! You know what I mean? And I love my black men.
You know and I support them 100% And I don’t feel like, once I make it, I gotta go to the other side! You know? And not saying, cause I’ve dated outside my race, I have, but I just don’t feel, like I need it on my arm to feel better about myself. And I just feel like, sometimes our men do.”
On not being bitter and moving on..
"You know they say, she done went crazy! Or bitter! And it’s like no, did you forget what you did? You know, but honestly it’s about how we react to what they do. And you know, it’s about changing your reaction. And I was hurt. I was deeply hurt, I knew this man, way before any of the celebrity and any of the fame. And we had children and I thought marriage was forever, but it’s not.”
I just have to accept this situation for what it is and move forward now. That’s when I felt like a load is off. You know I just felt free. I was like, you know I did a little bonfire in my back yard, I put his name on a list, with everybody else, who during that time, you know, who I thought had my back, but didn’t. You know, I was like, I forgive this person. I forgive this person. And I just did a list. And I went out to my backyard and I prayed on it. And I lit on fire and I buried it and gave it to God. And when I tell you honey, like chills. I really felt like freedom. I really felt free. So, that was just something I did. You learn what tools you need to get passed certain experiences that bring you down.”

93 comments:

Bishop Dammy said...

Morning libers. Remember God loves us.john 3:16. BishopDammy#

Anonymous said...

Congrats #bright bravo# 269beb21

Unknown said...

Ok congrats.....de go 4 light skinned cus de want a bright future.... Lol

Unknown said...

Def she wuld b a bit jelous

ary said...

why do some black people find it so appalling to date outside their race? why do they make so much of it?

Ceeflo said...

Very true....men think light skinned ladies are more presentable....gone are the days of slavery,but the mentality remains..

Anonymous said...

Sorry ex wife and move on.. God be ur guide...

Unknown said...

Congrats Kevin. Felt so sorry for Torrei after reading this. We shouldn't forget forget those who stood strongly beside us when things were rough. She just have to move on with life. Its a pity. I'm out. ***CATCH ME IF U CAN***

Unknown said...

CONGRAT KELVIN N ENIKO......... WISH DEM WELL
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FIONA FIONA said...

See his beautiful kids, lovely family,
Bitz me why all these oyinbo people like divorcing and re marrying, they don't just value family ties, ogini kwa! There is God o

Dadulcie said...

Their ish

Steveosky 4 Real. said...

Ok well assimilated.. Is that why you said things you should have did differently?? Really?? Should have done went to where? Na wah ooo!!

Unknown said...

I admire this guy, but with what they wife said hmmmmm... well I still love ur movies.

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BONARIO NNAGS said...

But I prefer his ex to his next. And I quite share her sentiments to some extent about black men and light skinned girls. Take a good look at their music videos.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

surshima samuel said...

She's still hurt I can feel it in her words, poor lady! I know that feeling u get when ur ex gets back with his ex damn! It really hurts + talking about men going for light skinned women when they become rich mmmmmmmmmh.. Never heard of it before. May God protect u and ur kids its never easy

dessymal said...

From black lady to light skinned lady next will b albino...

Anonymous said...

All I have to say is karma is a biatch . It will surely come calling one day , people should be careful with love because it can bring you a life time of hurt or happiness depending on the person you made happy or you fucked up

Anonymous said...

when marriage is not forever it hurts when one truly loves. zeekleo@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

This isn't fair at all. Look at his cute kids, he just left them like that without looking back. I wonder hw some women sleep well knowing they r part of d cause a marriage union gets splitted. Some house wives too r just troublesome (they hate their in-laws, me n m husband alone stuff) wch pushes their husband into d arms of another woman. Its well jare

Anonymous said...

This isn't fair at all. Look at his cute kids, he just left them like that without looking back. I wonder hw some women sleep well knowing they r part of d cause a marriage union gets splitted. Some house wives too r just troublesome (they hate their in-laws, me n m husband alone stuff) wch pushes their husband into d arms of another woman. Its well jare

Littlefinger said...

Stories that touch...Really feel yo pain torrei. It's good to see yhur moving on tho

Unknown said...

Men, na waoh make una dey think twice naa.

obietrezy said...

I think you should move on and forget his chapter because he's with someone he feels compatible with..

Anonymous said...

Funny thing is dt I love her skin tone.... Black don't crack baby, don't even cry...#cheEzyjayne

Walata said...

Ewooo dis ain't Gud, upon the beautiful kids she gave him n yet he ditched her n engaged to the other lady, but d lady I see as the new babe still look black to me

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Well, am wishing them all the best and his ex is really funny, so we are no more talking of white gals but light skinned gals.... No doubt she is really pained....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Anonymous said...

Men are just assholes,they suck..ungrateful beings

Anonymous said...

Kevin doesn't have a brief problem. Money is taking his arms.


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FOLARIN• said...

Shut up already

Unknown said...

He looks perfect with d ex wife nd children.

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Congrats to kev...

Unknown said...

awwwwww... tori jst won soooo many fans,eniko jst wana benefit frm sumtin she hasn't put any effort in,no b here we dey? lets see how dis ends...

Mzz_Mary said...

Congrats Kelvin
Dear ex_wife it's well

Unknown said...

Move on dear u are stronger than pain.
Men!men!!men!!!

Eugenia Ekeji said...

Eeewo. English.

Olumide Abiodun said...

Hmm! There is always two sides of every story, but I feel sad for this ladies, cos she knew him long before he became famous. But I can remember he said something about her giving him some problems. But still, maybe he should have worked things out with her...they have two kids together.


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Unknown said...

Scars of womanhood.I wish Benin girls would take a hint from here. You dnt need a white man on ur arms to feel sucessful.# Thorn

Anonymous said...

Black is beautiful anytime, anyday. The ex-wife should just move on already. It's difficult though. But she has her kids and that's all a black woman needs as strength to move on. And about men choosing other races when they're successful, I AGREE. Even our Nigerian artistes switch to light Skinned South Africans, Latinos and the likes for their music videos after using Nigerian girls during the struggle period. I'm not surprised at all. It is well. This is a lesson though. Be that strong and independent woman. Shit can happen.

Anonymous said...

Black girls will never like their completion. ... white things
CALL ME LIB 1

Anonymous said...

I hope Kevin and his new missy last. I wonder why it's all love and roses at first and then intense hatred later. Mtshewww.

Olubukola Ozone said...

A big congrats to him. As regards his ex-wife, maybe she has a point, but I dnt tink it applies to all black men

Anonymous said...

i always dnt like it wen a home break especially wen children are involve,men y do u tink of ur selfish interest only,making dem children of broken home with a confused ndunhappy mother

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm. Should I say congrat?
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Anonymous said...

he didnt leave u because he became more successful, he left u because all men need something new after a while...

smart wives let their men dick down whomever as far as he's handling his biz and responsibilities...

its the nagging ones that suffer

Leonard Omotayo (Hormortaryo #Frosh) said...

Move on madam... Congrats to d new prospective wife"

Anonymous said...

abeg jus talk say the thing dey pain you mtcweeew

Anonymous said...

Men! Smh

MISS E said...

Hi HILARY OBIORA. I just love reading your comments. They are usually very precised, sensible and non judgmental. Not a frequent liber but whenever am here, i try to read your comments first and them others. Please keep it up. *wink*

Abraham Ndu said...

Thank God u feel free now.... So let them be...they look hpy togeda and God's got some huge plan for you!!! I just luv Kevin!

Jade said...

Madam,pls move on. He is your past. It doesn't matter if he likes a green,yellow or purple person. Its his life, live yours.

MY TURN said...

That ROCK IS LARGE!

Unknown said...

Hmmm,men out there,forget not the wife of ur youth.

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmmm. Na him sabi jor, any news abt EBOLA cure.

*say no to ebola*

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Unknown said...

I always say be a good girl and you will find him,happy for hart

Unknown said...

Sumhw tru

Unknown said...

The west doesn't. Have. Family values at all,look at those beautiful angels,they will grow without having their dad at home.the society is filled with disfunctional homes.y

Unknown said...

It's unfair seriously men tend to forget the women beside them while they were struggling. All the same, congrats and I hope it won't be a wreck in future.

Anonymous said...

Kelvin is an ingrate

Anonymous said...

This undergrown munchkin Kevin made some beautiful babies. Torrei should move on. He's marrying another woman, he aint thinking about you.

Anonymous said...

Oh please!! They broke up ages ago. He has been dating Eniko for 5 years. And she is black from Jamaica. He left cos you guys had issues not cos you are black. And at the time he started dating this babe he was still hustling as well. Plus his kids spend time with him he didn't abandon them.

Esty kudos said...

Eyah. Its not easy to 'move on' wen ur still in love. I feel u ex wifey. May God give u a beta, well-deserved husband. Amen

Unknown said...

Lmao

Anonymous said...

Oh and she actually filed for divorce from Kevin Hart so why is she now crying cos he moved on?

Anonymous said...

Dark skinned women are so insecure jare....I know the amount of beef I get on a daily basis for being naturally fair with long hair. If they lose a job or anything at all they blame it on their skin tone.

They just need to snap out of it because God cannot create an entire population of people to be the same tone. If that was the case,we will be living in a very boring world.

Anonymous said...

If you haven't noticed, a lot of african americans talk that way. It's not wrong to them

Anonymous said...

U r senseless like ur father

Anonymous said...

Just so you know, he lives with his children. People please do your research before concluding

Anonymous said...

Its called Ebonics.......duh. Just like ur pidgin english

Anonymous said...

Everyone deserves happiness! He is clearly a better person with Eniko.

Anonymous said...

Idiotic comments like yours are not worthy of being posted. This would mean 80% of Nigerian women are insecure since the majority of them bleach

Anonymous said...

Kevin cheated on her while they were married, and yet he gets the prize as most men do when they become wealthy. She shouldn't worry jare, a better dude is on the horizon. Kevin is a midget anyway, and that ain't attractive. No offense to midgets

Anonymous said...

She was with him before the fame when he was cracking jokes in the cafeteria. Wonder if the new chick would have done the same back in the day.

Chi chi said...

Hun, don't get ahead of yourself, I am a dark skinned girl with a lot of confidence and no light skinned woman has ever made me feel insecure.

As a matter of fact, check the records, dark skinned women have always been more successful world wide than light skinned women. Am sure u don't want me to mention names, the most powerful men white/black/hispanic has dark skinned women on their arms.

I don't judge on skin tone, but your comment is jst plain stupid.

APPLE said...

Black men have inferiority complex. Most.

sabrina said...

Hmmm...firstly...I don't think black men run to white ladies once they become successful..secondly..I understand torreri's pain..and all..and I really hope she has let it go..thirdly...the idea that you were beside a man when he had nothing and then he becomes successful and leaves you, just because he's successful is wrong...real men don't do that...its your attitude that changes and pushes them away..some men try to stay put because we've both come a long..but we are humans we have expiry date for everything...we get tired of always trying without the next person helping..wish kevin all the best..as for torreri...move on like you say you have...there's someone for everyone...you just have to be in the right place,at the right time.

Anonymous said...

Where you see oyibo person for there?

Anonymous said...

He didn't leave the kids. This is not Nigeria where men shamelessly abandon their kids.

Unknown said...

Sweerie move n forgot d short man #ebonics# winks

Anonymous said...

That's what people are not seeing! I keep asking, especially regarding the music videos, how many white people do you see using black girls in their videos??? They are VERY few. Maybe she shouldn't have generalized the whole black man on light skin girl issue, but it is true with some people.

ZeeZee said...

Okay I have never been married and divorced and I'll never be (divorced) IJN Amen but.. I am trying to understand why she keeps PUBLICLY talking about it - its okay to talk to friends after all it helps but she shouldn't PUBLICLY say these things she knows Kevin is a celebrity - it is doing her children no good because thats their father and her no good because she looks like a bitter loser (which she is not)- congratulations to Kevin

Anonymous said...

The only thing I can see in this interview is "you know...," no, we don't! That is why they are asking you.

Bony bony said...

Kevin dat is not too good, tho is your social nd personal life but i felt bad cus am a fan of u

Unknown said...

Hmmm....plz God give me my own o! I don't want a man that's not meant for me. My heart is too fragile. #ifearheartbreak.com#

Anonymous said...

KEVIN IS A BIG FOOL FOR LEAVING HIS FAMILY COS OF HIS NEW FOUND WEALTH. THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR THIS. WILL HIS YELLOW BABE HAVE BEEN BY HIS SIDE IF HE WAS NOT SUCCESSFUL?

vanillafric said...

Olodo. Sometimes they speak EBONICS. Also know the difrences between American English... no be British b thier own standard abegi..

Unknown said...

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Anonymous said...

This is so far the most reasonable comment here

Anonymous said...

U are a horrible person, im pretty sure u are a Nigerian man

Anonymous said...

He truly is, and trust me, his second marriage wont last, the girl is clearly with him for the money

Anonymous said...

Kevin hart wasn't hustling when he met the girl, he was already famous five years ago, how nobody can see gold digger prints all over this eniko girl is beyond me

Anonymous said...

Cos he cheated on her with the eniko girl, while hart was still married to her, duh! The girl wrecked their marriage, that's the reason she's upset.

Anonymous said...

Are u really telling the world you jazzed your husband? Wow! Smh

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